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Health writer Gavin Evans offers his advice for a stress reduced meeting
with your potential employer. In addition to these points you should
also carry out some in depth research into the company you are visiting.
Best of luck!
1. Have a good
night's sleep:
If you arrive exhausted your eyes and body language will probably show
it. You won't be quite as sharp as you could be and you may well compensate
by coming across as over-anxious.
2. Dress right:
Not the same thing as dressing smart or dressing to kill, but more a
case of dressing in a way that is consistent with the impression you
want to create. This will not only aid your self-presentation directly
but may also make you more relaxed - knowing that you've hit the sartorial
mark.
3. Eat right:
Particularly if like most of us your tummy goes funny before the big
event. It's usually worth avoiding too much high fibre food (like bran
and other cereals and most fruits and vegetables), and to think in terms
of binding, starchy carbohydrates like pasta, which will store up your
energy reserves. Also think carefully before snacking on a Mars Bar
and gulping down a Caffe latte because the "rush" from sugar
and caffeine might speed you up too much, too quickly.
4. Make the interview
your day's sole priority:
This doesn't mean getting over-excited or obsessed about it, but rather
preparing properly. Think about your diet that day, your relaxation
techniques, your departure time, the possible questions, how you will
present yourself, the small talk even.
5. Chill out:
The ideal
is to feel at one with your interviewers and comfortable in your own
skin. My own favourite is to go for a half hour morning run which puts
me in the right frame of mind, but anything that works for you is worth
the effort: A few minutes of quiet, eyes-closed, vacant-minded meditation;
two or three deep yoga stretches; a long, hot bath, whatever it takes.
6. Go with the
music:
It doesn't work for the tone deaf, but the running Ally McBeal office
joke on the relation between mood and music is more ancient wisdom than
contemporary American fad. But before bunging in that CD and clapping
on those headphones make sure you choose something that fits your needs:
soothing, abstract, Simply the Best, whatever.
7. Arrive in
good time:
There's nothing more agitating than finding yourself in a tailback with
five minutes to go. So plan your route and give yourself at least half
an hour's leeway. If you get there too early, have a glass of water, settle
yourself and get used to the environment.
8. Watch your
bowels:
Think about it - the worst thing that could happen is a sudden urge
to empty them two minutes before you're called to account for yourself.
So try to "factor-in" a relaxed toilet break, with plenty
of room for slack, so to speak.
9. Don't take
them too seriously:
Your interviewers may hold your future in their palms, but deep down
they're probably just as insecure and hung-up as you, and remember,
they also had to sit there once upon a time. The point is they're just
ordinary human beings and often the best way to get through is to relate
to their humanity.
10. Prepare for
surprises:
Interviewers tend to slot into roles, often without realising it. You
get your devil's advocate, your inquisitor, your soul searcher, good
cop, bad cop. It's easy to prepare for their standard questions - "why
do you think we should employ you?" "describe your strengths/weaknesses?"
"why do you want to be an investment banker/rocket scientist/secret
agent?" , "why do you want to work here?"
You may also be
judged more on how you deal with the loose ball. I was once thrown by:
"So tell me, do you think we're a sexy company?" Often it's
not so much what you say but how you respond. A smile, a chuckle and
then a moment's thought can go a long way.
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